Emma's thoughts

I have recently came across a very strong business woman. Although she might not be in the senior management for God knows what huge corporation, she has multiple ideas that she is working on, as well as other small businesses that she is growing. I have nothing but admiration and respect for somebody so strong and determined who knows exactly what she wants and will stop at nothing to get it. Getting to know her made me really think about us women in general and how often we contemplate our perfect life, but how just as often we make excuses for not going and getting it. As I was becoming a bit tired of being the person who is vividly dreaming about the perfect life-style, I made some drastic changes at the beginning of the year and I am pushing myself with all I have to not fall back into the old patterns.  I cannot stress enough how much determination you ought to put out there in order to keep pushing yourself as so often we come across so many reasons to stop, it's unbe...

I definitely cannot speak for everybody but when it comes to myself, I remember vividly having a time of my life where going on first dates, or anything that would resemble one - would be an incredible struggle. From what was I supposed to wear to what am I supposed to say or eat, all these question would float in my head before, during and long after the date was over. A few years ago I was asked out by one of the guys I used to go riding with. I have somehow always been interested in him due to this mysterious vibe he would give as well as his good looks. Being around that world a lot, I also felt lucky to be asked out by him as it wasn't necessarily something he'd often be doing so to me, it overwhelmed me with this deep feeling of gratefulness as if he was doing me an honor to notice me. The day has finally arrived and I basically spent the whole morning using face masks, anti-dark circles products, washed and curled my hair and wear a full face of make-up as wel...

Last night I spent a wonderful time surrounded by friends whom I deeply care for. Among them, there were multiple thriving couples as well as a bunch of single women and my analytic thinking hit me that very moment. There are two ways to be single and in either of them, you have moments where loneliness hits you. www.pexels.com Of course that had made me take a step back and thank God and the Universe for the wonderful, profound relationship I am in and that in a chaotic world I managed to find my man but the altogether unsettling vibe of sadness and loneliness was thicker than normal in a event of such type, or at least that was my impression. So my next question is what to do when loneliness hits you? As it probably will, regardless of how positive you generally are and how happy in your single life. My mum gets lonely often even though she is the most independent, strong and happy to be on her own person I ever met so understandably a lot of single people out ther...